Are You Unintentionally Scaring Love Away?
Answer honestly to discover if you're your own obstacle
Question 1
of 10
1. When someone starts getting close, you tend to...
A. Pull back slightly to protect yourself
B. Test them to see if they're serious
C. Come on strong and overwhelm them
D. Keep things casual and non-committal
2. On dates, you usually feel...
A. Nervous and self-conscious
B. Need to impress them
C. Excited but hold back energy
D. guarded and calculating
3. When someone flakes or cancels, you...
A. Play it cool but feel hurt
B. Get upset and question everything
C. Give up on them immediately
D. Pretend you didn't care anyway
4. How quickly do you share personal information?
A. Slowly - I build trust over time
B. Very quickly - oversharing sometimes
C. It varies based on how I feel
D. Rarely share much at all
5. Your texting style in early dating is...
A. Taking hours to respond
B. Double and triple texting
C. Enthusiastic but misread signals
D. Keeping it brief and mysterious
6. When things start going well, you...
A. Start looking for problems
B. Get anxious about the future
C. Lose yourself in them
D. Sabotage it somehow
7. Your dealbreakers in dating are...
A. Very specific and numerous
B. Keep changing based on mood
C. Almost nonexistent - too lenient
D. Unclear even to yourself
8. After a few good dates, you...
A. Wonder if they're losing interest
B. Start planning the wedding
C. Get bored and distracted
D. Keep looking for "better"
9. How do you act when you truly like someone?
A. Act indifferent to seem cool
B. Become overly eager
C. Try to hide how much you care
D. Show mixed signals
10. What do your friends say about your dating?
A. You have impossibly high standards
B. You go for unavailable people
C. You self-sabotage when it gets real
D. You're too picky or too desperate